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Sexual fantasies… we’ve all got them! Yet, just because we all have fantasies doesn’t make it easy to talk about them with a partner.
One of the reasons we seldom talk about fantasies is because they are often taboo and irrational in nature. They are difficult to understand and makes sense of, which makes the “why” around what we find arousing about them hard to explain to others. When we are able to share and discuss what turns us on deep down, however, it can bring us closer to our partners. It can also add another layer of intimacy to the relationship, deepen our appreciation for our partner, and even lead to sexy adventures!
Many men who come into my office struggle with ejaculation issues. Premature ejaculation is one of the most common concerns, and there are a few false beliefs I keep hearing. I’d like to set the record straight for anyone considering coming in and provide information for those who do not have access to a therapist. Let’s debunk some premature ejaculation myths:
Myth: Premature ejaculation only affects young men and you will grow out of it as you age.
Have you ever shared your deepest sexual desires with someone? When was the last time you talked about your fantasies with your partner?
In Part I and Part II, we discussed the importance of everyday physical affection and being present in non-sexual interactions – two important habits that keep an intimate connection alive in a long-term relationship. In Part III, we will discuss how to keep your lady in a mental and physical state where she will proactively want to take advantage of the strong intimate connection that you are helping to maintain and explore what really turns her on.